Sunday, June 7, 2009

The Gypsy Fade

I just pulled a "gypsy fade" at a party to go home and watch the movie "He's just not that in to you" with a couple friends.  I'm shaking my head right now.  Are women really like that?  According to my friends who watched it with me, who are both men, they are.  

I think this might be the reason I'm still single.  I really don't think I'm like any of those characters.  Even me saying that makes me a little bit typical.  This is disturbing.  I honestly can't see myself, today, doing any of the things that those girls did in the movie....chasing after someone, staying with someone who cheated on you, being with a married man, or even making something out to be more than it's not.  The movie seemed to make women look desperate for relationships, willing to give up on standards, naive and quick to sacrifice instead of compromise.   Worst of all...just compromising too much.

If it is, it is.  If it's not, it's not.  It should just be that simple, right?

I want to be in love and never look back as much as the next person does.  I love being in love.  But I don't want to look for it or hope for it.  What's so bad about going through life without a partner if they don't come along?  See, I have to try to convince myself that companionship is just an instinct.  Which is funny because you can't really change instincts.  Haha, my heart pounded off beat for a second.  Must be because I have a soul and not just a muscle in my chest.

The only part of the movie I really agree with was the fact that if a dude is really into you, he'll make it obvious.  Remember that part ladies :)

It's almost 6am, I gotta go to bed.  Good night.


1 comment:

  1. I would have to agree with you young Miss. I too thought the movie made woman look a tad desperate but in all honesty I think alot of us woman really are...and not necessarily for matters of low self esteem, but rather for matters of the kitchen calling us to put "a bun in the oven" AKA "make some babies" AKA "Brown Chicken Brown Cow" I think woman are more apt to look like fools and desperate because it is in our hardwiring to procreate and get busy! But, the one thing that differentiates us from the animals is our ability to think and reason which I don't see many chicks doing these! Posse up girls!

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